TAM+ EP68 Beyond Willpower: Busting Dangerous Myths About Addiction Recovery
Ever felt like recovery is a mountain that's just too steep to climb? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of The Addicted Mind Podcast, host Duane Osterlind tackles the most damaging myths that keep people trapped in cycles of addiction and shame.
Drawing inspiration from Johan Hari's profound insight that "the opposite of addiction isn't just sobriety, it's connection," Duane explores how recovery isn't about perfect willpower or never making mistakes – it's about reconnecting with yourself, your values, and others who support your journey.
Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed by shame, or convinced you're "too broken" to heal, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap forward. Duane breaks down six harmful myths that create invisible barriers to recovery and provides practical strategies to move beyond them.
You'll discover why slip-ups aren't total failures but opportunities for growth, why your addiction doesn't define your identity, and why the trust you think you've permanently lost can actually be rebuilt over time. Most importantly, you'll learn that healing isn't linear – it moves in waves, with highs and lows that are all part of the journey.
Through challenging negative thinking patterns, reconnecting with your values, developing healthy coping strategies, and practicing self-compassion, you can rewrite your recovery story. The path isn't about perfection or living up to others' expectations; it's about choosing actions that align with your values each day, even in small steps.
As Duane reminds us, recovery is possible for everyone. Your story is still being written, and it has the potential to unfold in ways you can't yet imagine. This episode includes a downloadable worksheet to help you identify and rewrite the myths holding you back on your journey to healing and connection.
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332: Psychedelic Innovations in the Fight Against Addiction with Devin Effinger
After enduring the chaos of addiction and the devastation of personal loss, Dr. Devin Effinger emerged with a new perspective and a mission to explore the healing potential of neuroscience. At just 15, a traumatic brain injury set the stage for a tumultuous journey through substance abuse, but also inspired a relentless pursuit of recovery and scientific discovery. Join us as Devin courageously shares his story, from the darkest moments marked by addiction and tragedy to the pivotal breakthroughs that spurred his remarkable transformation.
We venture into the intricate world of addiction, examining the neurological pathways that reinforce such destructive habits and the powerful influence of early trauma on our mental health. Devin unpacks the complex interplay of trauma, addiction, and the brain, offering insight into how substances can hijack our reward systems and why recovery is such a daunting endeavor. With raw honesty, he recounts his own battles with addiction, including the tragic consequences that forced him to confront the need for change.
In this episode, you will hear:
Dr. Devin Effinger's transformative journey from addiction and trauma to recovery and scientific exploration.
Insights into the neurological pathways that contribute to addiction and the role of early trauma.
Exploration of the promising potential of psychedelic medicine in promoting neuroplasticity and aiding recovery.
The complex interplay between trauma, addiction, and the brain's reward systems.
The challenges and breakthroughs in embracing a 12-step recovery process.
Devin's advocacy for restorative justice and trauma-informed care in addiction treatment.
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TAM+ EP67 The Four Archetypes of Happiness
In this enlightening episode of "The Addicted Mind," hosts Duane Osterlind and Eric Osterlind dive into the fascinating world of the four archetypes of happiness based on the work of Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar.
These archetypes offer a roadmap for understanding happiness and its pivotal role in addiction recovery. The discussion spans the spectrum from the "Rat Racer," who postpones present joy for future gains, to the "Hedonist," who seeks immediate gratification without pondering future consequences. The hosts also examine the "Nihilist," who doubts the very possibility of happiness, and ultimately, the "Happy Camper," who balances immediate pleasure with long-term goals—the ideal state for sustainable recovery.
This episode not only decodes these archetypes but also provides insights into how adopting the Happy Camper mindset can enhance one's recovery journey and overall life satisfaction.
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Key Points
The concept and impact of the four happiness archetypes in recovery.
The pitfalls of living as a Rat Racer or a Hedonist in the context of addiction.
Understanding the detrimental outlook of the Nihilist and strategies to overcome it.
The benefits of embodying the Happy Camper for balanced, long-term happiness.
Discussion on the importance of community in supporting recovery and mental health.
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331: Overcoming Trauma and Addiction: Sam Thomas's Journey of Resilience and Healing
Growing up, Sam Thomas faced the harsh realities of bullying, leading him to battle bulimia in his teenage years. This challenge was only the beginning of a tumultuous journey through addiction and recovery, marked by a critical diagnosis of complex PTSD. As we sit down with Sam, the writer, speaker, and campaigner from Brighton, UK, he opens up about the intricate dance between dual diagnosis and addiction transference, shedding light on how unaddressed trauma can fuel dependency and how confronting it can become a powerful catalyst for change.
Together, we navigate the maze of Sam's early struggles, from seeking help at just 18 years old amid a landscape of limited resources and misunderstanding, to eventually confronting alcoholism in his twenties. Sam's story is a profound reminder of the resilience required to overcome challenges when support systems are lacking or misunderstood. Through volunteering and writing, Sam found purpose and community, illustrating how connection can foster healing and build self-esteem, especially for men facing eating disorders—a topic that remains under-discussed.
In this episode, you will hear:
Sam Thomas's journey from battling bulimia as a teen to overcoming alcohol addiction in his twenties.
The role of unaddressed trauma and dual diagnosis in addiction transference.
Early struggles with bulimia and depression amidst limited support systems and societal misunderstandings of male eating disorders.
Transition from eating disorders to alcoholism as a coping mechanism following significant life events.
The challenges and realizations of acknowledging alcohol dependency and the path to recovery.
Healing through unique passions, such as caring for exotic pets, as a metaphor for confronting fears and trauma.
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TAM+ EP66 Beyond Survival Mode: Living Your Values
Beyond Survival Mode: Living Your Values Through Recovery's Toughest Challenges
When life gets turned upside down in recovery, what keeps you moving forward? In this powerful episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane Oline and Eric Osterlind explore how reconnecting with your values can be the anchor you need when emotional pain threatens to pull you under.
We've all been there – stuck in survival mode, consumed by shame, fear, or anger after a setback in recovery. The hardest part? Feeling disconnected from yourself, like you're just going through the motions of someone else's life. This episode dives into what value-based living really means and why it matters so much on your healing journey.
Drawing from the work of Dr. Steven Hayes (founder of ACT Therapy) and Brené Brown, Duane and Eric offer practical wisdom on how values serve as your "North Star" during life's storms. Unlike goals that can be checked off, values are ongoing qualities that give your life meaning and direction.
The hosts emphasize that valued living isn't about perfection – it's about direction, not destination. Even small steps toward what matters count as success. They also remind listeners that values can evolve over time, especially during challenging experiences that clarify what truly matters.
This episode includes a step-by-step walkthrough of a worksheet designed to help you reconnect with your values when you're struggling. From identifying challenges to taking small, intentional actions that realign you with what matters most, Duane and Eric provide a practical roadmap for living authentically even when it's hard.
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Whether you're facing a relapse, dealing with intense emotions, or simply trying to hold your life together, this conversation offers compassionate guidance on using your values as a compass to find your way forward again.
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Key Topics
What value-based living means and why it matters in recovery
How emotional pain can disconnect us from our values
The difference between values and feelings in guiding our actions
How values serve as your "North Star" during challenging times
A practical worksheet for reconnecting with your values when struggling
Small, intentional actions that can realign you with your values
How community support can help you live according to your values
Timestamps
[00:01:48] Introduction to the importance of values in recovery
[00:03:24] How emotional pain disconnects us fromrom our values
[00:05:02] Values as ongoing qualities that give life meaning
[00:07:08] The question: "What kind of person do I want to be in pain?"
[00:08:37] The difference between values and feelings
[00:11:51] Step-by-step walkthrough of the values worksheet
[00:15:32] How values become your guide when the path is unclear
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