In this episode of the Anxiety Matters podcast, BZE and BZW engage in a profound discussion with Lybi Ma, executive editor of Psychology Today and author of the upcoming book "How to Be Less Miserable."They explore anxiety's complex relationship with mental health and societal trends, touching on topics like gaslighting and toxic relationships that resonate with many. Lybi shares her insights on the transformative power of nature and personal experiences, including her journey through challenges such as divorce, which shaped her perspective on emotional acceptance.Emphasizing emotional literacy, they discuss the impact of culturally informed attitudes towards emotions and the importance of seeking credible mental health information in an age of social media. As they anticipate the release of Lybi's book, they reflect on its aim to help individuals cultivate a sustainable sense of well-being amidst life's intricacies.HIGHLIGHTS:6:45 Exploring Popular Mental Health Trends11:29 The Rise of Mental Health Awareness12:36 The Impact of Social Media16:41 Insights from a New Book25:27 Cultural Perspectives on Emotions31:01 Lessons from Personal Experienceconnect with Lybi:How to Be Less Miserable book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Less-Miserable-Negative/dp/B0F4G5JT6QCONNECT WITH THE BONNIE ZUCKERS:Bonnie Zucker Ph.D.(west) WebsiteBonnie Zucker Psy.D. (east) WebsiteThe content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.
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How to Cope with Big World Issues
Bonnie West and Bonnie East, address the intricate relationship between anxiety and significant global issues impacting children's mental health. They unpack how the emotional weight of crises like climate change and social unrest affects young minds.Their conversation emphasizes practical strategies for instilling agency in children, encouraging actionable steps toward environmental responsibility. BZW and BZE also advocate for mindful media consumption to help kids navigate a landscape filled with distressing information.Ultimately, both stress the balance between awareness and emotional well-being, promoting gratitude and positive decision-making amidst the chaos. This episode invites listeners to explore personal agency and joy while grappling with life's complexities.HIGHLIGHTS:6:01 Addressing Climate Anxiety10:21 Coping with Environmental Concerns16:00 Managing Information Overload19:12 Fostering Gratitude and Hope21:45 Navigating Teen Consumerism28:48 Finding Joy Amidst ChallengesCONNECT WITH THE BONNIE ZUCKERS:Bonnie Zucker Ph.D.(west) WebsiteBonnie Zucker Psy.D. (east) WebsiteThe content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.
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Coping with Catastrophes (a follow-up)
In this episode of Anxiety Matters, BZW reflects on her return home after the LA wildfires, exploring the emotional challenges of replacing belongings and navigating insurance. This experience prompted a reevaluation of her relationship with consumerism and sustainability, connecting to the theme of eco-anxiety.The ladies discuss BZW's recent HuffPost article regarding trauma and coping mechanisms, highlighting how anxiety can lead to irrational fears. Drawing from their psychology backgrounds, they discuss the impacts of catastrophizing and emphasize adaptability amidst uncertainty. Ultimately, they illustrate how adversity can foster personal growth and a stronger appreciation for the present.HIGHLIGHTS:2:15 A New Perspective on Consumerism4:16 Reflections from the Fire Aid Concert7:29 Understanding Catastrophe and Anxiety14:16 Coping with Uncertainty17:06 Resilience Through Adversity19:49 Exploring Catastrophic Thoughts23:23 Embracing a Resilient Mindsetmentioned in this episode:Huffpost Article: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/stevie-nicks-palisades-fire-la-home_n_68b71366e4b0cd019d22ff2c/ampCONNECT WITH THE BONNIE ZUCKERS:Bonnie Zucker Ph.D.(west) WebsiteBonnie Zucker Psy.D. (east) WebsiteThe content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.
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JOMO & People Pleasing
In this episode of the Anxiety Matters podcast, it's all about anxiety, people-pleasing, and the shift from FOMO to JOMO, or the Joy of Missing Out. Drawing from their personal experiences, BZW and BZE engage in a spirited conversation about the transformation many have undergone since the pandemic and how it has reshaped their preferences regarding social interactions and personal well-being.BZE reflects on her own journey of both embracing solitude and finding joy in staying home during the pandemic. She shares anecdotes about how she created memorable staycations for her family in lieu of travel, creatively transforming their home into various thematic experiences. This exploration leads to a discussion about the profound changes in societal behavior regarding social commitments influenced by isolation and technology. They articulate how the pre-pandemic FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) has shifted for many to JOMO, highlighting how some individuals have developed a newfound appreciation for being at home or engaging in solitary activities.The dialogue naturally transitions into the difficulties faced by individuals with social anxiety and their tendency to agree to social plans out of a desire to please others, even when it doesn't align with their true feelings. They examine the slippery slope of being overly accommodating, noting how it can exacerbate anxiety and lead to a cycle of flakiness. They emphasize the importance of mindfulness in handling social invitations, advocating for setting boundaries and honoring one’s own needs while nurturing relationships.HIGHLIGHTS:0:59 Discovering JOMO and FOMO6:18 The Impact of Social Anxiety12:54 Understanding People Pleasing20:10 Balancing Personal Preferences26:24 Podcast Dynamics and Personal Growth27:35 Key Takeaways for Listenersmentioned in this episode:The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing SyndromeCONNECT WITH THE BONNIE ZUCKERS:Bonnie Zucker Ph.D.(west) WebsiteBonnie Zucker Psy.D. (east) WebsiteThe content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.
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Eco-Anxiety with Lisa Kaas Boyle
In this episode of Anxiety Matters, BZW and BZE engage in a deep conversation about climate anxiety with environmental activist Lisa Kaas Boyle. They begin with striking statistics on plastic consumption, contrasting U.S. practices with those of Denmark, which sets the stage for a discussion on cultural and policy shifts necessary to tackle environmental issues.Lisa shares her unique experiences as an environmental attorney, shedding light on eco-anxiety as a legitimate concern rooted in our environmental crises. They highlight the importance of validating personal feelings related to climate anxiety and explore actionable steps individuals can take to combat these feelings.Lisa emphasizes the power of community activism, simple lifestyle changes, and connecting with nature as paths to empowerment and resilience in the face of climate change. This episode serves as a call to action, inspiring listeners to engage with environmental justice and fostering hope amid challenging times.HIGHLIGHTS:8:46 Lisa's Doppelganger15:03 Eco-Anxiety and Action19:04 Nature as a Healing Force23:37 Taking Action Against Pollution30:58 The Truth About Compostable Bags35:14 Empowering the Next Generation41:11 Kids Connecting with Natureconnect with Lisa:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-kaas-boyle-03938519/Overload: America's Toxic Lovestory: https://overloadfilm.com/mentioned in episode:The Uninhabitable Earth bookThe Second Body bookCONNECT WITH THE BONNIE ZUCKERS:Bonnie Zucker Ph.D.(west) WebsiteBonnie Zucker Psy.D. (east) WebsiteThe content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.
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*The content of Anxiety Matters Podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute mental health or medical advice, nor is it a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, call emergency services or a local crisis line.*