Raw Reality

Winter has you feeling a little flat, unmotivated and over the cold? In this episode, we’re sharing our 10 favourite ways to ditch the winter scaries and romanticise your life again, because sometimes you don’t need a full life reset, you just need a few little things that make you feel like you again.
From getting your nails done (almond French or light pink because choosing a risky colour and immediately regretting it is NOT the vibe) to booking a massage, fake tanning, cleaning out your wardrobe and giving your home a little Pinterest inspired refresh, we’re getting into all the small things that can completely change your mood.
We’re also sharing our favourite makeup products, how to make your skincare routine feel like a GRWM, the easiest accessories to instantly look more put together, digital decluttering, resetting your “for you” playlist and why an at home brow tint might just be the underrated glow up you need.
Basically, 10 easy ways to feel fresh, put together and excited about your life again without needing to completely reinvent yourself. 💅🏼✨
Grab your coffee, put on your favourite playlist and let’s ditch those winter scaries.
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This week is a BIG catch up from bub night routines, being sick, travel plans and the luteal phase absolutely ruining Lily, to working, fashion, dinners and everything in between.
We’re also chatting Lily’s latest shoot with Hannah x Inform, the crazy results that can come from consistency during an off season, and why we’re both feeling like we need a holiday ASAP.
Plus, we’re discussing Alex Cooper buying the girls’ registry, a very interesting DM about peptides, and sharing our current recommendations, Tori’s slow cooker obsession and Lily’s favourite All For Mimi tanks.
Basically… a big life update, lots of opinions and a whole lot of chit chat 🤍
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#196 You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?
In this episode, we’re challenging the idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced or constantly “aligned.” Because while you can manifest, journal, visualise and dream about the life you want… at some point, you actually have to do the work.
We’re talking about the difference between wanting the outcome and being willing to do what it takes to get there, from building a successful business and becoming a creator, to getting fit, making money and creating the life you actually want.
We get real about the influencer life people only see from the outside, Lily’s journey of realising she wasn’t working as hard as she thought she was, getting out of the victim mindset, comparing your starting point to someone else’s, and why being busy doesn’t always mean you’re moving forward.
We also unpack the uncomfortable truth that hard work doesn’t guarantee success, life isn’t always fair, and sometimes being uncomfortable doesn’t mean you should stop.
Because your dream life isn’t something you simply manifest.
It’s something you build.
And the question we want you to finish this episode asking yourself is:
If I carried on being the person I am today, would I actually reach my goals?
You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?
Challenging the whole idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced, or constantly aligned.
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From Tori’s Melbourne trip, the latest Tate updates and all things motherhood, to Lily’s first ever solo MSCR shoot, Saturday chaos and a movie night in the warehouse.
Then we’re getting into the weirdest aesthetic trends on the internet, rib contouring?! The “skinny” trend making its way around the algorithm, period stories from IG and why what you see online is SO different depending on your algorithm.
Plus, our latest recommendations, including the Redken hair product we’re obsessed with, Tower 28 and the Indy Clinton podcast.
Basically… a big catch-up, a lot of opinions and some seriously questionable internet trends 😂
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What started with contractions and the excitement of finally meeting her baby quickly turned into something Tori never could have prepared for.

In this episode, Tori takes us through her birth story from the very beginning, the first contractions, the anticipation, heading into hospital, labour, the moment her baby arrived… and then how everything suddenly took a terrifying turn.

What was meant to be one of the biggest and most special moments of her life became an emergency, with things unfolding completely differently to how she imagined.

We’re talking the full birth story, the moments that scared her, what was happening behind the scenes, how she felt in the aftermath and what it was really like going from “I’m about to meet my baby” to “something is seriously wrong.”

Raw, emotional, chaotic and completely unfiltered. This is Tori’s birth story. 🤍

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