The Anxious Achiever

Can depression make success feel like something you have to keep earning? In this episode, I sit down with John Moe, host of The Hilarious World of Depression, to talk about depression, anxiety, and the ways mental health shapes how you work and see yourself. John shares how he learned to recognize “magical thinking” and the unreliable narrator of depression, why achievement can’t fill the gap between success and self-worth, and how therapy helped him challenge distorted thinking. We also talk about getting laid off, separating your identity from your work, performing normalcy, and knowing when it’s time to ask for help. Tune in to separate your worth from your achievements.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 Why depression and anxiety affect work in very different ways.

03:15 What humor shows about depression and mental health.

05:00 What’s the difference between anxiety and an anxiety disorder?

07:30 What depression can teach you about perspective, creativity, and warning signs.

10:15 Can achievement actually make you feel better?

13:00 What does the “unreliable narrator” of depression sound like?

15:00 How therapy helps identify and challenge distorted thinking.

17:15 What remains when you separate depression from your sense of self.

18:45 How getting laid off challenged John’s relationship with work and achievement.

21:15 When your identity becomes too closely tied to your work.

24:00 Do you still have to perform normalcy when you’re depressed?

27:15 How to show up at work when depression makes everything harder.

29:45 What creative professionals teach us about working with mental illness.

32:30 Why creative work can accompany mental health struggles without replacing treatment.

34:00 How does depression show up across different professions?

Resources + Links

Get a copy of John Moe’s book, The Hilarious World of Depression HERE!

Find more resources on John’s website https://www.johnmoe.website/

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

Watch the podcast on YouTube

Find more resources on our website morraam.com

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Follow John on LinkedIn: @johnemoe

How do you lead at the highest level while still taking care of yourself? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. John D’Angelo, CEO of Northwell Health, to talk about what it means to lead through uncertainty, pressure, and enormous responsibility without losing sight of your own wellbeing. John shares how his emergency medicine background shaped his approach to leadership, how anxiety has fueled his drive to succeed, and why purpose, healthy boundaries, and taking care of yourself can make you a stronger leader. We also talk about burnout, psychological safety, navigating mistakes, protecting time to think, and building a trusted inner circle you can be vulnerable with. Tune in to discover how to lead through pressure and uncertainty while protecting your energy, wellbeing, and sense of self.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What does leadership mean to you?

03:45 How an emergency medicine mindset helps leaders navigate uncertainty.

06:30 How do you manage worry and stay composed under pressure?

10:30 Do leaders need to make space for emotion after high-stakes moments?

16:00 How to create more effective meetings and protect time to think.

19:30 Why taking care of yourself can make you a better leader.

23:00 How to handle imposter feelings during major career transitions.

30:00 What’s putting the most pressure on healthcare today?

32:00 What does mentally healthy leadership look like?

34:15 How do you protect your energy, family time, and well-being?

38:30 How to create psychological safety in high-stakes environments.

43:45 Who do you need to surround yourself with?

Resources + Links

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

Watch the podcast on YouTube

Find more resources on our website morraam.com

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Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

Follow John on LinkedIn @john-dangelo-md

What if the patterns that helped you succeed are also holding you back at work? In this episode, I sit down with MIT professor Dr. Deborah Ancona to talk about how the “family ghosts” you carry from childhood can shape the way you handle authority, conflict, responsibility, perfectionism, and asking for help. We dive into how recognizing these patterns helps you understand your triggers, change behaviors that keep you stuck, and lead with greater intention. Tune in to discover how your past may be influencing the way you work, lead, and relate to others.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What are “family ghosts,” and how do they follow us into adulthood?

04:45 Can the patterns from your childhood become your greatest strengths?

09:30 Why some behaviors are easier to change than others.

14:45 How familiar family roles can shape the way you lead.

18:15 How reconnecting with forgotten parts of yourself can strengthen your leadership.

23:45 Which “good ghosts” help ambitious people succeed?

28:00 How avoiding conflict and refusing to ask for help can create anxiety.

30:30 How do you identify the ghosts you want to change?

32:45 How feedback can reveal patterns you may not see in yourself.

37:00 How role models can help you try on new ways of leading.

40:15 Are your workplace relationships repeating old family patterns?

42:00 How thinking in “triangles” can change difficult workplace dynamics.

43:30 When is it time to step away from a relationship or workplace?

Resources + Links

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

Watch the podcast on YouTube

Find more resources on our website morraam.com

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Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

Follow Deborah on LinkedIn: @deborahancona123

Could your workplace be making it harder for you to do your best work? In this episode, I sit down with author and neurodiversity advocate Dave Thompson to talk about designing work around how people actually function best. Dave shares what he learned from helping build a successful social enterprise with a majority-autistic workforce. We dive into neuroinclusive work, masking, and how understanding your own needs helps you do better work without constantly forcing yourself to fit in. Tune in to discover how to create more room for the way you actually work, think, and thrive.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 What would your ideal workplace look like?

03:15 Why owning what you're good at and bad at matters.

10:15 How designing work for everyone can improve productivity and engagement.

13:45 How early expectations can shape the way you see your abilities.

18:45 The 5 questions that change the way you design work.

23:00 What do you do differently that helps you succeed?

26:45 How the “Busy Burner” method helps manage competing priorities.

29:00 Why your ideal work environment may not look like anyone else's.

36:30 How masking can show up in everyday workplace behaviors.

43:30 What's wrong with the way most job descriptions are written?

46:15 Why employers need to think about what they're offering candidates.

47:45 What happens when workplaces aren't designed for everyone.

Resources + Links

Get Dave Thompson's book, Brainstorm HERE

Learn more about Dave Thompson and his work HERE

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

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Do you ever feel like you're forcing yourself to work in ways that just don't fit how your brain works? In this episode, I sit down with Penn and Kim Holderness to talk about how understanding ADHD transforms the way you lead, create, and work together. Penn and Kim share how understanding emotional dysregulation transformed their marriage, why shame can hold people with ADHD back, and the systems they use to reduce overwhelm, unlock creativity, and work more effectively as a team. Tune in to discover how embracing the way your brain works can lead to stronger relationships, better collaboration, and more meaningful work.

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In this Episode, You Will Learn

00:00 Why ADHD is about more than distraction.

05:00 How to recognize emotional flooding before it takes over.

08:00 How to build a work schedule that fits your brain.

09:15 Why giving your brain room to hyperfocus pays off.

11:15 How to structure your week for more creativity and focus.

14:30 How anxiety and ADHD strengthen creative thinking.

20:15 Does creativity become harder under constant pressure?

25:15 What would a workplace designed for ADHD look like?

29:15 Advice to anyone trying to build work around their strengths.

31:15 Why creating work that reflects who you are leads to greater fulfillment.

Resources + Links

Get a copy of ADHD Is Awesome HERE

Learn more about the Holderness Family HERE

Watch the Holderness Family on YouTube HERE

Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever

Watch the podcast on YouTube

Find more resources on our website morraam.com

Follow

Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

Follow The Holderness Family on Instagram: @theholdernessfamily