10% Happier with Dan Harris

Why "how am I feeling?" isn't always the right question, why resilience doesn't mean what you think it means, and how rituals can steady you.
Dr. Suzan Song is a Harvard- and Stanford-trained psychiatrist, humanitarian researcher, and adviser. For more than two decades, she has dedicated her work to building resilience in individuals and communities affected by adversity. She has a private practice in Washington D.C., is a professor of psychiatry at George Washington University, and is a sought-after speaker on the science of healing. Her new book is Why We Suffer and How We Heal: Using Narrative, Ritual, and Purpose to Flourish Through Life's Challenges.
In this episode we talk about:
How a violent attack on her father shaped her life's work
Why we recreate the painful situations we swore we'd avoid
Why chasing stability causes so much of our suffering
Three tools for hard times: narrative, ritual, and purpose
How to spot and rewrite the scripts running our lives
How people heal in countries with almost no therapists
Why validation has to come before asking someone to change
Why purpose is about being needed, not achieving more
Why she thinks we've gotten "resilience" all wrong

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Buddhist advice on taking care of yourself so you can take care of the world, including what to do with your outrage, and why looking for the good on purpose isn't denial.
The news is painful right now. And for most of us, the options we reach for — doom-scrolling, rage-posting, or unplugging entirely — don't actually help. Meditation teacher and bestselling author Sharon Salzberg joins Dan to take live questions from the 10% with Dan Harris community on how to find solid ground when the world feels like it's on fire.
In this conversation, Sharon Salzberg and Dan Harris discuss:
How to feel your anger without being consumed by it — and why that distinction matters
What's usually hiding underneath the anger: grief, fear, and sadness
Why action is the antidote to despair — and what actually counts as action
How civil rights movement leaders sustained their effort in the face of uncertainty
How to handle guilt about not doing enough
Why "look for the helpers" is more than a platitude
Whether meditation can possibly be relevant in a full-blown poly-crisis — Sharon's answer may surprise you
Sharon Salzberg is one of the most influential meditation teachers in the Western world. She has been teaching for over four decades and is a co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts. She is the author of many books, including Lovingkindness and Real Happiness. Find more of her guided meditations in the 10% with Dan Harris app.
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Buddhist advice on the feeling of "I'm not enough," the voice that says "if I don't do it, no one will," and tolerating uncertainty without impatience.
Santacitta Bhikkhuni trained as a nun in England & Asia, primarily in the lineage of Ajahn Chah and has also received teachings in the Shechen lineage of Tibetan Buddhism. She is committed to Gaia as a living being and resides at Aloka Earth Room, currently in San Rafael, California. She recently co-authored the book What Are You Waiting For? A Conversation about Buddhism between Two Old Friends. You can find more of Ayya's teachings in audio & video format, as well as ongoing events in-person & online.
In this episode we talk about:
Why self-improvement might be the wrong goal entirely
The upside of having your heart broken
Why patience isn't just for old ladies
How to actually tolerate uncertainty
The difference between reacting and responding
What waiting in line can teach you
The devotional practice missing from Western Buddhism
What it means to become part of the Earth's immune system
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Winter is coming. The author of Wintering on weathering the cold, dark seasons, literally and otherwise, with rituals, cold-water swimming, reading in the middle of the night, and a lesson from a hibernating dormouse.
Katherine May is the New York Times bestselling author of Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times. She is an internationally renowned writer, podcaster and speaker whose work touches on nature, spirituality, slow living, and neurodivergence; her podcast is The Clearing. Katherine lives by the sea in Whitstable, UK, with her husband, son, and pets. 
In this episode we talk about:
What "wintering" means, and why hard seasons aren't personal failures
How trees and a hibernating dormouse model surviving the cold
Katherine's year of cascading disasters while writing Wintering
The difference between control and agency when the world feels overwhelming
How fear spreads online like rabbits fleeing danger signals
Why rest isn't selfish, and how caregivers are denied it
Rejecting performative rest, ice-bath bros, and biohacked cold-water swimming
Simple rituals, "first and second sleep," and reading through insomnia
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Plus: surviving cancer twice, what three divorces taught him, and being a Baptist who owns a bourbon company.
Terry Bradshaw is one of America's best-loved sports figures. As quarterback for the Pittsburgh Steelers, the Hall of Famer led his team to four Super Bowl victories. Since retiring from football, Bradshaw has become a celebrated sportscaster, actor, and entrepreneur. "Pappy" Bradshaw and his wife Tammy live in Texas near daughters Rachel, Lacey, and Erin, and their families. His new book is Looking for Terry: A Memoir.
In this episode we talk about:
Why Terry spent years not knowing he had clinical depression
The day he broke down sobbing on the field mid-game
Why men resist asking for help, and what they do instead
How his wife naming his depression "Roy" makes it more manageable
His lifelong struggle to win his mother's approval
What three divorces taught him about himself and marriage
Squaring his Christian faith with owning a bourbon company
Surviving two cancers in one year
Loving life at 78
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