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97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do.
I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to finally get started.
We get into:
What role play actually is (it's broader than you think)
The real reason couples who want to try it never do
Why it feels like a performance — and how to turn it back into play
The "cheap knockoff" fear nobody names out loud
Exactly how to start tonight, no costume required
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Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does.
This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible.
What you'll learn: 
✔ The anatomy behind this response that most men have never been taught ✔ Why the most common technique is the reason it's not working 
✔ The conversation you need to have before you try anything 
✔ The one sentence she'll say that changes everything — and what to do when you hear it 
✔ Why what you do after matters just as much as the technique itself
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You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything.
Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider themselves good allies. Men who want their partners to have orgasms. Men who are still, without knowing it, making it impossible for her to ask for what she wants.
We get into:
Why she can't tell you to stop — even when she wants to
The "good girl/bad girl" split that's killing your sex life right now
How penis-centered sex became the default (and what it's costing both of you)
The porn conversation that's destroying otherwise healthy relationships
Where to start if you want to actually change what's happening in your bedroom
This one's for the men who are trying. And the women who love them.
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You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference.
In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone.
This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place.
We're covering: 
→ The 4 science-backed signs she's about to come 
→ The pull back — and why stopping completely ruins everything → How to bring her back up faster each time 
→ The 3-edge rule and when to break it 
→ The release that triggers a rolling orgasm → How to use toys like the Womanizer Enhance, Womanizer Duo, and We-Vibe Rave 2 to extend the experience
Whether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game.
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Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script.
Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history.
In this episode:
Why porn turned foreplay into a formality — and what she actually needs instead
The 3-word cheat sheet every woman wishes her partner had
Why lube and toys aren't optional — they're the whole game
How to talk about sex in bed without killing the mood
What real-world sex actually looks like versus the porn performance
Why good foreplay starts way before anyone gets naked
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