How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

Scaramucci’s 11-day tenure as the White House Communications Chief under President Donald Trump’s first term ended in a blaze of recrimination. Scaramucci was advised by a PR consultant to disappear for five years. He refused - and reinvented his career.

Now, he is the co-host of the US version of The Rest is Politics podcast alongside British journalist Katty Kay.

After Harvard Law School, he joined Goldman Sachs and built a career in finance, eventually founding the investment firm SkyBridge Capital.

In this revealing conversation we discuss what working on Wall Street in the 80s was like, getting fired from Goldman Sachs, his failed first marriage, not being there for his son’s birth, getting fired from The White House and rebuilding his current marriage.

His book, All the Wrong Moves, looks at how three catastrophic decisions and years of ‘sh*tshow politics’ led to Trump.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Introduction montage

03:22 Learning optimism and pronoia

05:02 Self forgiveness after failure

06:40 Growing up and getting to Tufts

11:58 Why he wrote the book

14:03 Fired then rehired at Goldman

25:23 Money mindset and marriage cracks

30:48 Work Taxes Burnout

31:26 Marriage Neglect Regrets

34:07 Conflict Avoidance Trap

34:55 Affair Self Forgiveness

37:46 Fatherhood After Divorce

40:44 Trump Ego Decision

45:00 Firing from The Whitehouse

57:03 Rebuilding and Looking Ahead

💬 QUOTES TO REMEMBER:

When bad things happen, take a step back, and get into a channel that is the adult channel. Act in a rational way.

I trained my brain to be optimistic.

If you’re not careful, wealth can make you very depressed and lonely.

Trump's bullying reminded me of my dad… but I was better prepared for it.

🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS:

Anthony’s book, All the Wrong Moves, is available to buy now: www.penguin.co.uk/books/476667/all-the-wrong-moves-by-scaramucci-anthony/9781847929235

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Production & Post Production Coordinator: Eric Ryan

Engineer: Matias Torres

Assistant Producer: Shania Manderson

Senior Producer: Hannah Talbot

Executive Producer: Alex Lawless

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Luke Evans and Sarah Solemani join Elizabeth to talk about the journey of Elizabeth’s 2017 novel The Party to its new five-part ITV adaptation.

Luke stars as the show’s protagonist, Martin Gilmour, and Sarah stars as his wife, Lucy… oh and she also brilliantly adapted the novel for screen.

The trio discuss the making of this exciting new drama for TV, how Luke discovered the book and kick-started the process and what the show is about. They discuss themes including: sexuality, the class system in the UK, shame, women leading production, culture on sets in today’s world and friendship.

This bonus episode is brought to you by @arlalactoFREE - all the taste, easier to digest.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 Introduction

01:42 Luke Discovers the Novel

02:51 Finding the Screenwriter

04:45 Adapting Into Five Episodes

07:13 What The Party Is About

09:44 Casting Lucy and Onscreen Marriage

13:04 Collaboration and Set Rewrites

18:09 Women Leading the Production

19:35 Set Culture and Final Day Speech

21:15 Author Visits Set and Craft Details

22:26 Friendship, Desire and Identity

25:08 Class, Shame and Final Takeaways

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LINKS + MENTIONS:

The Party starts Sunday 11th October 9pm on ITV1 and ITVX. The series airs for three consecutive nights: Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, concluding with the fourth and final episode the following Sunday 18th and Monday 19th. Or you can binge all five episodes on ITVX.

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Bonnie Garmus was 64 when her debut novel, Lessons in Chemistry, was published. It went on to sell more than eight million copies, spend almost two years on the New York Times bestseller list, was translated into more than 40 languages and become an eight-part Apple TV+ series. At its centre was Elizabeth Zott, a fiercely intelligent, forthright chemist turned 1950s TV cooking star.

Bonnie and I talk about the misogyny that inspired Lessons in Chemistry, her love of dogs, working through a stutter, adopting her two daughters from China and what it took to overcome years of rejection.

Her new novel, Peck & Peck, is out in the UK on 13 October.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Intro

03:41 Arts Versus Science

05:44 Sexism Sparks Novel

08:58 Greed And AI Warning

12:19 Dogs Behind Characters

16:30 Childhood Failures

30:26 Living With A Stutter

31:50 Letters And Workarounds

32:53 Adoption Journey To China

36:10 What Adoption Really Means

37:23 Family Bonds And Fate

39:17 Jeopardy Husband Spotlight

40:10 98 Rejections And Resilience

47:05 Finding An Agent And Writing Life

💬 QUOTES TO REMEMBER:

I’ve had a lot of dogs in my life, and not a single one has disappointed me.

I never look back on my career and think I have regrets.

I had a therapist who was a stutterer… he gave me the courage to embrace it, and then I got better.

🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS:

Bonnie’s new novel Peck & Peck is available to pre-order now: www.waterstones.com/book/peck-and-peck/bonnie-garmus/9781786588975

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Russell T Davies has spent decades creating some of Britain’s most beloved and groundbreaking television. After studying English at Oxford, he went from writing for children’s programmes and Coronation Street to creating Queer As Folk in 1999 - a show that changed the conversation around gay representation on TV. Since then, he’s written hit after hit, from Bob & Rose and A Very English Scandal to Years and Years, It’s A Sin and his hugely successful revival of Doctor Who. He’s won four BAFTAs and was awarded an OBE in 2008.

In this episode we talk about where his obsession and passion for TV came from, how his exceptionally busy mind works, losing his husband to a brain tumour, his love of Dr Who and…finding love again.

His new memoir, The Queerest of Folk, is out on 8th October.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Intro

02:35 TV Obsession Origins

03:24 Memoir and Andrew

08:35 AIDS and Its a Sin

10:36 Queer as Folk Shockwaves

12:37 Failure to Drive

16:45 Writing in Images

28:05 Early Illustration Gigs

28:54 Obsessed With Drawing

30:20 Losing the Habit

31:52 Comics and Story Beats

33:54 Writing Geniuses Doctor Who

37:13 Staying a Fan

41:41 Legacy and Family Roots

49:59 Aging Love and Goodbye

💬 QUOTES TO REMEMBER:

When I dream I invent people who don’t exist.

I’ve saved for decades, I saved for a rainy day, and then one day it rained.

Please never get rid of the Tardis.

🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS:

Russell’s memoir, The Queerest Of Folk is available to buy now: uk.bookshop.org/p/books/the-queerest-of-folk-a-life-in-television-russell-t-davies/a290496f474a1f8c

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Sir Paul Smith is one of Britain’s most iconic fashion designers, renowned for his sharp tailoring and his sartorial flair. His clothes have an innate sense of mischief: brightly coloured linings, unexpected stripes and a determination never to take themselves too seriously. His devoted clients include Gary Oldman, Bill Nighy and Matty Healy, who wore a Paul Smith suit for his recent wedding.

Behind the stripes and the suits is a man with a simple life philosophy: stay humble, work hard, be kind. On this episode we talk about the cycling accident that set him on a path to fashion and how he’s kept his global business independent for 56 years. Plus, the secret to a long marriage, what tailoring teaches him about people’s insecurities - and why he wore a suit every day during the Covid lockdowns.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Intro

03:40 Tailoring for Everyone

06:48 The Pink Wall Story

08:31 Stripes and Reinvention

10:20 Turning 80

11:33 Cycling Freedom and Family

18:20 Crash That Changed Everything

24:20 Pauline Sets The Standard

25:19 Keeping Love And Work Balanced

26:19 Step Parenting And Playfulness

27:28 The Trap Of Comparison

32:43 Brexit COVID And Staying Independent

36:02 Choosing The Right Collaborations

37:21 Believing Your Own Hype

42:47 Creativity Legacy And Farewell

💬 QUOTES TO REMEMBER:

Pauline [my wife] set the standard - it’s been very important for longevity.

A successful relationship is about balance. Knowing when to talk, when to listen… and have both feet on the ground.

The danger is losing your focus, and worrying too much about ‘them’.

🔗 LINKS + MENTIONS:

Sir Paul Smith’s Memoir ‘Threads’ is available to buy now: www.paulsmith.com/uk/threads-by-sir-paul-smith-special-edition-book

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