Whether you were the one who centered a man and drifted from your friends OR your friends disappeared so they could center a man in peace (it happens, y’all). This is a firsthand perspective on what it feels like to be that friend who let men disrupt her circle, and how that isolation either happens to you or because of you.We’re looking at all sides of it in this exact order, and closing it off with when it's time to cut the cord or how to close the gap, IF it’s reconcilable.Want Early access to episodes and to see the BTS?Follow me on twitch where I record these live!Join my patreon for exclusive pre-access uploads of the podcast + Support the podcast.My InstagramMy TiktokFleekazoid podcast on youtube
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Surviving the friend that hates you: Jealousy in friendships
For the naive who may not understand what insecurity and malignancy shows up as in friendship dynamics - this episode is about how being a “girls girl” will be weaponized by friend collectors and women aiming to level you with them. This is about friendships in adulthood, why you can’t take on charity friendships, and how the stakes are more serious as your life decisions manifest into reality.But dont worry - these types usually pick victims. So it’s nothing directly about you here - it’s just whoever they can get to say yes to them first.Follow me on substack - HERE
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How toxic work places and toxic relationships are the same
Walking you through the eerie, dead-on parallels between toxic relationships and toxic workplaces. Check out my FDS collaboration episode on this topic here!How they both love bomb, devalue, and try to drain you dry. If you’ve ever questioned why you feel like you’re working harder just to be respected less, this is why.I break down how these environments condition you to overextend, accept less, and fight to prove your worth until you finally leave or get left on read.You can expect us to talk about red flags, real remedies, and how to mentally exit a situation before they try to discard you like a used-up tool.I also give you my smoothie recipe for burnout brain (yes, we’re healing from the inside out) and strategies to stay sane without snapping or crying your way into a sad girl hangover.And at the end? I go off-script with the chat about never going monster mode, and how eerily similar the playbook is between toxic bosses and toxic boyfriends. Disclaimer: All commentary is based on broad workplace dynamics and not reflective of any specific company or individual. This episode is intended to help others navigate difficult professional environments with clarity, compassion, and strategy.
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Being Addicted to Love - What centering men steals from you
If you’ve been centering men to the point where you’ve lost yourself, this is a walk through of symptoms, signs, and what the other side looks like when you made it all the way out (no judgement zone).I talk about the signs you might be a love addict, what it’s actually stealing from you, and why it’s so hard to stop chasing that high. We go into why “chill girl” energy is usually just low self-worth in disguise, how love addiction becomes your whole personality, and how most of us are just addicted to hope, not actual connection.You’ll also hear the exact steps I recommend to move on and rebuild. Not just from a man, but from the whole fantasy. This isn’t about being bitter or anti-love. It’s about finally making peace with your own life and letting that be enough.This is for the women trying to decenter men, figure out who they are outside of being desired, and stop wasting their glow on bare-minimum energy.Let’s talk about it.
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When you're in a slump from hell - body in total shut down
Why you’re not lazy or broken, and how to gently pull yourself out of task paralysis and flight mode after a nervous system shut down. This one’s for anyone who’s been deep in the slump from hell and is ready to feel human again.
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