262 — You Don’t Need Closure to Heal: 4 Steps to Move Forward
What if you didn’t have to wait for an apology, an explanation, or that perfect last conversation to feel at peace with your past? You don’t need closure from someone else to move forward. You can create it for yourself.
The good news is there’s a practical, research-backed strategy you can use starting today. So instead of chasing one final conversation or piece of information that you think would give you closure, reclaim your energy, and writing your own ending.
Some of the things I share are:
What closure really is — and why your brain craves it after breakups, ghosting, or rejection
The science of unfinished stories and why rumination keeps us stuck
Why chasing “just one more conversation” almost always leads to more questions, not answers
The simple four-step plan to create your own sense of closure
The biggest mistake people make and how to avoid it
How to cope with unfinished business
The one time it makes sense to seek closure
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261 - The Small Social Risks That Spark New Connections and Deepen Your Relationships With Ben Swire
Do you struggle to share what you're really thinking or feeling due to fear that you might be judged or rejected? Or, do you worry that someone might use your personal information against you if you put yourself out there?
If you've ever struggled to take social risks, this episode is for you. I'm talking to Ben Swire, a top thought leader on human connection and authentic living,
Some of the things we discuss are:
What "safe danger" is and why it's the key to meaningful growth
How to take micro risks (like admitting you don’t know something or giving honest feedback)
The crucial difference between comfort and true safety
Using playful and creative tasks to lower defenses and build trust
How to practice vulnerability without taking reckless, all-or-nothing leaps
The specific activities that will deepen your connections in fun ways
How to create safety in groups so people feel safe enough to share their real ideas
The art of sharing things you love (like poetry or a creative project) without fearing judgment
Why even small risks feel harder when you care deeply—and how to push through the fear
Turning your hardest struggles into your greatest emotional “superpowers”
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260 - Temptation Bundling: The Science-Backed Trick to Make Habits Stick
What if you could make your hardest habits feel easier—without relying on willpower? There’s a simple, science-backed strategy that pairs what you “should” do with something you “want” to do, so you actually look forward to it.
The good news is, you don’t need more motivation. Instead, you can create instant gratification that makes you want to keep engaging in a habit like going to the gym or doing chores.
Some of the things I share are:
What “temptation bundling” is—and why it works in your brain
The dopamine-based reason this makes good habits stick
One strict rule that transforms chores into treats (and why cheating ruins it)
How temptation bundling differs from habit stacking and commitment devices
Real-life examples you can copy for the gym, cleaning, travel, and taxes
The mistake that makes bundles fail (competing attention) and how to avoid it
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259 - Feel Hopeless? 5 Habits That Bring Hope Back Fast with Dr. Julia Garcia
Do you feel hopeless—like you’re stuck in a dark place with no way out? If you’ve ever thought your struggles are too big to overcome or that the world is falling apart, this episode is for you. Hope isn't something you either have or don’t—it’s a skill you can build.
My guest today is Dr. Julia Garcia, a psychologist and author of The Five Habits of Hope. Some of the things we discuss are:
What hope actually is
The biggest myth about hopelessness (and the mindset shift that helps you find a way out)
How social media quietly drains hope—and a simple way to reclaim it
How to reflect without ruminating
The micro social risks that build real connection (even if you’re shy)
How to release the things that are keeping you stuck
Why receiving compliments and support is harder than it seems—and how to practice it
Turning pain into purpose—how to repurpose hard experiences so they work for you, not against you
A five-question “feeling framework” to get unstuck fast and take meaningful action
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258 - 7 Sneaky Mindset Traps Draining Your Mental Strength (And How to Stop Them)
What if your mind is setting small traps for you that are draining your mental strength without you noticing? Your thoughts don’t just live in your head. They shape your emotions, your choices, and even how your body responds.
The good news is anything learned can be unlearned. When you spot these unhealthy thinking patterns, you can apply some simple fixes that will help you put your brain power toward the things that matter most.
Some of the things I share are:
The 7 mindset traps that quietly sabotage your mental strength
Why your automatic thoughts aren’t the problem—how you respond is
Why emotional reasoning will hold you back
How to reality-check catastrophic thoughts and get back to problem-solving
The two-column control audit that lowers anxiety fast
A quick test to escape the rumination loop
How to turn those labels you put on yourself into helpful behavior that sticks
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Acerca de Mentally Stronger with Therapist Amy Morin
Growing mentally stronger will change your life and therapist Amy Morin wants to show you how to make it happen.
Whether you want to improve your mental health, boost your resilience, gain emotional intelligence, or gain a competitive edge that will help you reach your greatest potential, this show is for you.
Mentally Stronger provides therapist-approved strategies for tackling the biggest battle we all face--the one in our minds.
Webby Award-Winning Host Amy Morin is a psychotherapist and the bestselling author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do. Every episode dives into science-backed strategies for building the mental strength you need to handle whatever life throws this way.
No one understands the importance of having mental strength more than Amy. Her personal journey surrounding grief and loss has led to her to take a deep dive into mental strength. And now, she's sharing what she learned along the way.
Her TEDx talk, The Secret of Becoming Mentally Strong, is one of the most viewed talks of all time with 25 million views and she's sold over 1 million books. She's a speaker and a consulted who teaches companies like Google, Under Armour, and NBC how to grow mentally stronger.
Unlike other shows, Mentally Stronger provides a unique blend of research-backed tips, stories of mental strength, and therapist-approved strategies that will empower you to thrive.
Join Amy on the transformative journey to mastering your mind. And the fun part is, she records the show from a sailboat in the Florida Keys.
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