Ep 150 - Why Don't My Charisms Help the People Closest to Me More?
In this thought-provoking episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons explores a challenging question: Why do our spiritual gifts, or charisms, often seem less impactful for the people closest to us? Drawing from real-life examples and personal experiences, Jill delves into the mysterious ways the Holy Spirit works through our charisms, highlighting how our efforts to serve loved ones might not always yield the results we hope for. She discusses the theology behind the body of Christ and emphasizes how each of us plays a unique role in bringing grace to unexpected people—sometimes as a "random cubicle mate" in someone else's story. Whether you're feeling frustrated about your charisms or curious how they fit into your relationships, this episode brings clarity, encouragement, and a renewed sense of mission within the Church. Tune in to discover why everyone's gifts matter and how our call to serve reaches far beyond our inner circles. 00:49 – Why Don't Our Charisms Help Those Closest to Us? 2:02 – Real-Life Examples of Charism Limitations 4:40 – The Theology of the Body of Christ and Charisms 7:58 – Serving the "Random Cubicle Person" 11:25 – The Urgency of the Mission and Everyone's Role Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.
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Ep 149 - Opt Out October: Choosing Your Best Yeses
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons wraps up "Opt Out October" with a special conversation featuring Lisa Hendey, founder of CatholicMom.com! Together, they dive deep into the importance of discerning your yeses and noes, especially as it relates to your spiritual gifts and living out your vocation without burning out. Lisa shares her inspiring journey of starting CatholicMom.com, navigating big transitions—including the decision to step away from her own ministry—and how prayerful discernment and self-care are essential for faithful service. Jill and Lisa also touch on the generational differences in how women approach self-care and saying no. Lisa reflects on how her mother's generation, and even her own, often equated virtue with always saying yes and powering through burnout. She contrasts this with the healthier outlook of younger generations, who are much more likely to openly discuss their needs for personal care and boundaries. Lisa encourages listeners that caring for ourselves spiritually, physically, mentally, and emotionally isn't selfish—it's necessary for truly fruitful ministry and vocation. By embracing both the grace of yes and the grace of no, we can trust that God will provide what's best for us, and for those we're called to serve. Practical tips, personal stories, and wisdom on embracing trust in God when making tough choices await listeners in this enriching episode. Absolutely! Here are 6 timestamped titles from the episode: 01:54 - Founding CatholicMom.com: The Beginnings 06:20 - Discerning Out of a Beloved Project 10:41 - Building Trust in God: Habits & Practices 17:23 - The Three-Part Process for Choosing Your Yes 24:16 - Embracing the Grace of No & Generational Shifts Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.
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Ep 148 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Spiritual Clutter with Father Timothy Gallagher
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons welcomes Father Timothy Gallagher for a deep dive into discerning and decluttering the spiritual life. As part of the "Opt Out October" series, the conversation explores what it means to address not only physical, mental, and emotional clutter, but also the often-overlooked spiritual distractions that keep us from fuller relationship with Christ. Father Gallagher shares his vocation story, offers practical insights from St. Ignatius' rules of discernment, and discusses why so many Catholics haven't learned about these foundational tools for navigating spiritual desolation and growth. Together, they unpack why we're drawn to distractions, the roots of spiritual clutter, and how regular sacramental life, daily prayer, and Ignatian wisdom can bring clarity and renewed purpose. Whether you're seeking to deepen your prayer life or simply feel spiritually "stuck," this episode provides practical steps and encouragement to encounter God more freely and let go of what holds you back. 1:34 - Father Gallagher's Vocation Story 3:47 - Discovering the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius 7:07 - Addressing Widespread Spiritual Discouragement 10:50 - The Problem of Spiritual Distraction and Diversion 15:14 - The Transformative Power of Prayer and Sacraments 25:12 - The Biggest Misconception About Discernment Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.
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Ep 147 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Mental Clutter
In this episode, host Jill Simons welcomes Dr. Peter Malinoski, a Catholic psychologist, to dive deeply into the concept of mental clutter and its role in our spiritual and personal development. This is part of the "Opt Out October" series, which is all about helping listeners identify and intentionally eliminate the unnecessary noise and commitments that hinder their ability to live out their unique spiritual gifts—their charisms. Dr. Malinoski explains that much of the so-called "clutter" we experience—our racing thoughts, emotional outbursts, and inner fragmentation—points to underlying wounds, unmet needs, or unresolved issues from our past. He emphasizes that, rather than random noise, mental clutter carries important messages about parts of ourselves that need healing or integration. He notes research suggesting that 90% of our reactions to present situations come from unresolved issues in our past, making interior integration essential for true spiritual and emotional peace. Jill and Dr. Malinoski discuss how many Catholics tend to avoid looking inward, fearing self-absorption or thinking it's unspiritual. Dr. Malinoski insists that genuine self-knowledge and self-love aren't selfish; in fact, St. Thomas Aquinas and the great commandments teach that we cannot love neighbor or God fully without loving ourselves and knowing who we truly are. He provides examples of how distraction and internal noise in prayer are often signs that our hearts are trying to show us where we need attention. If you're looking for a practical, Catholic perspective on how to quiet internal noise, heal old wounds, and discern your unique gifts, this episode is packed with insightful guidance, relatable examples, and great resources to continue your journey. 01:20 - Introduction to Mental Clutter and "Opt Out October" 04:07 - What is "Human Formation"? 07:26 - "I'm Actually Grateful for the Clutter": The Purpose of Distractions 11:10 - The Importance of Inner Integration Before Loving Others 23:49 - Recognizing Spiritual Bypassing and Its Consequences 47:18 - Resources for Human Formation: Souls and Hearts Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.
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Ep 146 - Opt Out October: Saying No to Emotional Clutter
In this episode of Charisms for Catholics, host Jill Simons welcomes Brya Hanan, a licensed marriage and family therapist and integrative Catholic coach, for an in-depth conversation about "Opt Out October: Saying No to Emotional Clutter." Together, they explore the importance of addressing emotional clutter in our lives and how healing and integration can lead to greater spiritual freedom. Brya shares her personal journey of integrating faith and psychology, discusses the challenges of balancing inward healing with outward service, and offers practical tips for Catholics seeking emotional clarity and health—including how to gently assess your own needs, cultivate emotional vocabulary, and practice regular emotional "hygiene." The episode also touches on the intersections of faith, body, and emotional wellness, and how Catholic traditions like adoration and the sacraments can be powerful tools for holistic healing. Whether you're navigating old wounds, curious about somatic practices, or simply want to nurture a more integrated spiritual and emotional life, this conversation provides both guidance and encouragement. 01:02 - Introducing Emotional Clutter and Opt Out October 02:47 - Brya Hanan's Path to Integrating Faith and Psychology 08:42 - Healing for Yourself—Not Just for Others 12:49 - How to Gently Assess Emotional Clutter Without Overwhelm 23:31 - Building Emotional Hygiene in Daily Life 37:35 - Integration Through Catholic Practices and Sacraments Learn more about charisms and charism discernment at https://manypartsministries.com.
How effective would a company be where only about 5% of people knew their job description? Not very. And yet this is what we see in the Church right now - many people know they are a part of the Body of Christ but very few have a clear sense of what role they play - if they even realize they play a role at all. Charisms for Catholics helps you identify, value, and invest in where the Holy Spirit is moving in your life and to partner with Him to build the Church by embracing your specific role in the Body of Christ. Produced by Many Parts Ministries.
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