Diverse Thinking Different Learning

We are joined in this episode by Stacey Shubitz, K-6 literacy consultant, a former elementary school teacher, and the co-founder of the Two Writing Teachers blog and podcast. Her forthcoming book, Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities: Empowering Kids for the Future, empowers parents to navigate the special education system.
In this episode, we talk openly about what it really takes to support a child with learning challenges in today's school system. Drawing from decades of experience on both sides of the table, Stacey shares why she wrote Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities and what she wishes someone had told her when she was first trying to make sense of evaluations, IEP meetings, and endless paperwork.
Our conversation centers on some of the practical mindset shifts that can help change everything for families, with Stacey explaining why leading with a child's strengths and not just their needs is so important for confidence and motivation. She also addresses disability language head-on, discussing why it is that naming disability isn't limiting but instead opens doors to services, legal protections, and access that families often don't realize they're entitled to.
Throughout the episode, we highlight how knowledge of data, timelines, rights, and documentation can shift the power dynamic and help parents advocate more effectively. We offer some concrete guidance on when to push for evaluations, why waiting too long can do a lot of harm, and how to ask for progress data without feeling confrontational. Stacey also shares what makes IEP meetings feel collaborative instead of adversarial, from simple preparation strategies to small human touches that ease tension. Communication comes up again and again: how approaching teachers with curiosity, clarity, and respect can lead to better outcomes for kids!
Stacey also speaks candidly about burnout, emotional exhaustion, and why joy isn't optional but protective. This conversation offers reassurance, realism, and a clear-eyed look at how parents can show up informed, empowered, and grounded while advocating for their children.

Show Notes:

[2:32] - Hear how Stacey's experiences with IEPs inspired her to help other parents.
[4:04] - Stacey describes leading with strengths, not just challenges or disabilities.
[6:03] - Highlighting positives alongside challenges helps children see themselves as capable.
[9:42] - Stacey argues that children should know their rights and services so that they can advocate for themselves.
[12:49] - It's so important for parents to monitor progress, request data, and push for evaluations when their child isn't advancing.
[14:58] - Stacey adds that it's also essential to advocate firmly and request evaluations when interventions aren't producing results.
[16:20] - Preparing for meetings with clarity, human touches, and understanding who's present can help make discussions more productive.
[19:44] - Coming to meetings prepared with documents in advance helps balance power and supports advocacy.
[23:04] - Stacey discusses how reviewing IEPs in advance can help ensure more effective teacher interactions.
[25:00] - Approaching teachers with curiosity and gathering accurate information helps promote calm, productive conversations around school.
[28:18] - Stacey gives an example of how being open about personal struggles allows teachers to provide better support for children.
[30:33] - Stacey asserts that assuming positive intentions about teachers helps lead to collaboration and avoids unnecessary conflict.
[32:07] - Stacey wishes that she had known sooner how important it is to read the procedural safeguards book to understand parental rights and timelines.
[34:12] - Stacey expresses that she has learned that intentionally curating joy and connection can help prevent burnout.
[37:05] - Joy is a legitimate form of intervention.


Links and Related Resources:
Stacey Shubitz - Make the School System Work for Your Child with Disabilities: Empowering Kids for the Future

Episode 164: 5 Keys to Productive IEPs with April Rehrig

Episode 238: Dismantling DEI and the Department of Education: How Changes Impact Your Child with Vickie Brett & Amanda Selogie

Episode 246: Accommodations, Modifications, or Remediation? How to Know What Your Child Really Needs with Amy Cushner

 
Connect with Stacey Shubitz:
Stacey's Website

Email: [email protected]

Stacey's Substack

Two Writing Teachers Website

We happily welcome Dr. Allie Ticktin to Diverse Thinking Different Learning! Dr. Ticktin is dedicated to helping children and their families thrive through sensory-based play, having founded Play 2 Progress and writing Play to Progress, introducing parents to all eight senses and offering practical ways to support them at home. Blending child development science with playful learning, Dr. Ticktin focuses on building kids' confidence and supporting their growth across emotional, social, physical, and academic areas. At the core of her philosophy is the belief that empowering parents from the very beginning is the best way to set children up for lifelong success!
Throughout our conversation, we explore the topic of sensory processing and sensory motor integration - often misunderstood but nevertheless foundational to how children learn, regulate, and thrive. Dr. Ticktin, an occupational therapist and author, explains that sensory processing involves more than just the five basic senses, that there are actually eight senses that children need to effectively process, including the "hidden" senses of vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoceptive!
Dr. Ticktin highlights the fact that sensory issues are not simply behavioral problems but are rather neurological differences in how a child's brain processes sensory information. This can manifest in various ways, from being overly sensitive to certain textures to having trouble regulating emotions and attention. She stresses the importance of reframing these challenges as differences in sensory processing, rather than just automatically resorting to labeling them as "bad behavior."
As we discuss, an especially important part of supporting children with sensory needs is teaching them to recognize and communicate their needs, and Allie discusses "body tools" - often referred to as fidget spinners or sensory toys - and how empowering children to identify and use whatever tools help them self-regulate can dramatically improve their ability to focus, learn, and interact socially.
Our discussion also covers how sensory integration therapy can positively affect not just motor skills but also social-emotional functioning, with Dr. Ticktin reflecting on how she has seen children learn to self-regulate and even start advocating for their sensory needs and those of their peers. Our discussion provides you with a comprehensive overview of sensory processing, its importance in child development, and effective strategies for supporting children with sensory needs via a collaborative approach based on children's strengths!
 
Show Notes:

[2:29] - Sensory processing involves eight senses, not just tactile experiences such as messy play.
[5:10] - Dr. Ticktin argues that a child's sensory system forms the unseen "roots" supporting all higher developmental skills.
[7:05] - Some kids struggle to filter irrelevant sensory input, resulting in classrooms feeling overwhelming.
[9:08] - Dr. Ticktin points out that many "bad behaviors" actually stem from unsatisfied sensory needs.
[11:28] - Dr. Ticktin explains how "body tools" can help children self-regulate, reducing behavioral issues via sensory support.
[13:30] - Sensory inputs can raise or lower excitement depending on how the child processes them.
[17:38] - Misread behaviors in daily tasks might signal underlying sensory-motor challenges.
[18:22] - Hear how sensory issues can appear as rough play, clumsiness, withdrawal, or shutdowns.
[21:09] - Dr. Ticktin argues that self-regulation often crosses over with sensory needs.
[24:49] - Young kids may tantrum from sensory overwhelm because they lack the language to explain their feelings.
[25:12] - Dr. Ticktin explains how teaching kids to "empty their bucket" prevents overload, very similar to adults managing stress.
[28:33] - Learn how play-based therapy strengthens sensory foundations with purposeful activities appearing as simple play.
[31:54] - Excessive screen time limits ideation, rendering open-ended, unscheduled play especially important for development.
[33:25] - Consistent family involvement is so important, since progress relies on using tools beyond therapy sessions.
[36:14] - Dr. Ticktin encourages listeners to buy her book.


Links and Related Resources:
Episode 42: Understanding Sensory Processing Disorder with Courtney Duckworth-Harris, MA, OTR/L

Episode 72: Prioritizing Co-Regulation and Self-Regulation in Communication with Danielle G. Kent M.S., CCC-SLP

Episode 221: Would a Behavioral Aide/Shadow Help My Child?

Episode 233: Body-Based Interventions for Neurodivergent Students with Megan Beardmore, PhD, NCSP

Allie Ticktin - Play to Progress: Lead Your Child to Success Using the Power of Sensory Play

 
Connect with Dr. Allie Ticktin:
Play2Progress Website

Phone: (323) 782-3331

We are happy to welcome back Jaime Porras for this episode! Jaime Porras is the District Vice President for Fusion Academy, overseeing nine campuses across Los Angeles and Santa Barbara. With more than two decades in education (including fourteen years at Fusion), he has held roles from teacher to Head of School and is passionate about fostering student-centered, relationship-driven learning environments. He holds an MA in Education with a focus on Social Justice from Antioch University Los Angeles and a BA in English from Ohio State University. A proud Buckeye and Culver City resident, Jaime enjoys sports, travel, literature, and discovering the best tacos in L.A., where he lives with his wife and daughter.
Jaime joins us for this episode to discuss how the 1:1 learning model at Fusion Academy has become increasingly important in recent years as students have faced growing challenges with anxiety and depression, and disengagement. He explains that the pandemic drastically worsened many students' struggles with executive functioning and social anxiety but how, in a 1:1 setting, Fusion is able to provide a safe, supportive space where students can rebuild their confidence and reconnect with learning. By removing the pressure and comparison of a traditional classroom, students feel safer to take risks, make mistakes, and grow.
Jaime highlights the importance of building a strong mentor-student relationship in which the teacher can truly understand and cater to each individual's unique needs, interests, and learning style, a personalized approach that also helps address issues around executive functioning, as Fusion teachers break down assignments into manageable steps while also explicitly modeling positive behaviors and social-emotional skills. Jaime notes that the 1:1 environment allows students the space to process feelings of failure in a healthy way without judgment from their peers.
At the same time, Fusion works to build a sense of community and belonging via shared social spaces and activities, although the focus remains on creating an environment customized for each student's needs. Jaime believes that this model will only become more important in the years ahead as schools grapple with the lasting impacts of the pandemic on student mental health and engagement.
Our conversation highlights how the 1:1 approach at Fusion Academy empowers students to rebuild their confidence and reconnect with their strengths even in the face of significant challenges. As the education landscape continues to evolve, this model may serve as an important blueprint for supporting the diverse needs of today's learners!
Show Notes:

[2:27] - Jaime describes how post-pandemic isolation worsened student anxiety and depression while boosting demand for 1:1 learning.
[5:59] - 1:1 environments reduce social pressure and allow teachers to address each student's unique needs.
[9:00] - Jaime stresses that individualized settings can lead to belonging, safety, and feelings of mattering.
[12:08] - Learning begins with love and rapport, creating trust before taking on executive functioning challenges.
[14:01] - Jaime explains how executive functioning develops with maturity, so Fusion Academy celebrates incremental progress.
[17:11] - Jaime notes how 1:1 settings allow students to process failure safely and quickly recover.
[19:41] - Fusion removes traditional school obstacles, focusing on individualized support without judgment.
[22:37] - 1:1 learning suits kids who need safety, personalization, and emotional comfort.
[23:08] - Jaime highlights Fusion's flexibility to adjust instantly for each student's needs.
[25:21] - Jaime compares Fusion's structure to private lessons that separate focused learning from broader social experiences.
[27:46] - Small-group environments let students more easily build real friendships and resolve conflicts.
[29:48] - Jaime criticizes traditional schools for pressuring kids into activities that adults rarely pursue.
[31:53] - Hear Jaime share a student's gradual growth from isolation to leadership, proving that patience and personalization can lead to confidence.
[35:19] - Jaime predicts that 1:1 education will shape all schooling by highlighting growth over conformity.
[38:30] - Where can Jaime be reached?
Links and Related Resources:
Episode 52: How a 1:1 Instruction Model Helps Students with Jaime Porras and Vailet Yarijanian

Episode 154: Why Self-Efficacy and Self-Advocacy are Important for Diverse Learners with Ashley Harding

Episode 189: The Private School Option for Kids with Learning Differences with Collette Bowers Zinn

Episode 243: From Inclusion to Belonging: Creating Neurodiversity-Affirming Schools with Amanda Morin

Connect with Jaime Porras:
Fusion Academy Website

For this edition of the show, we warmly welcome Joan Green! Joan Green, M.A., CCC-SLP, is a speech-language pathologist, assistive technology specialist, and founder of Innovative Speech Therapy in the Washington, DC area. For nearly 40 years, she has helped people of all ages (especially neurodiverse learners) use technology to enhance communication, learning, and independence. Passionate about accessibility and innovation, Joan also educates families and professionals on how everyday tech and AI can change our daily lives.
Our conversation explores how technology, including AI-powered tools, can be used to help support neurodivergent students in learning, communicating, and thriving, with Joan explaining that her passion for this work began in the 1980s when she saw how early computer software could dramatically improve outcomes for her adult patients with neurological conditions. She then expanded her focus to helping families and students, motivated in part by her own experiences as a parent.

We highlight how many accessibility features and free tools built into common devices and platforms can provide incredibly crucial support for students who struggle with reading, writing, organization, or focus, with Joan stressing the importance of tailoring solutions, whether it's adjusting text-to-speech settings or finding the proper app or extension. She cautions against oversimplifying the process, as each student's needs are unique.
Our discussion also touches upon the complex role of AI and advanced technology in education. Joan sees tremendous potential for AI to personalize learning and free up teachers to focus on higher-level instruction.  She also voices some concerns about overreliance on it. Her approach is to position AI as a "thought partner" that can enhance and augment human learning rather than replace it.
Throughout the conversation, Joan also shares some practical tips and resources, including her free 15-minute consultations and her ongoing Tech Life Inner Circle program, which provides weekly training and collaborative problem-solving sessions. Our conversation in this episode truly highlights the power of technology to bridge gaps and amplify the voices of neurodivergent students - but only when used with intention and mindfulness!
Show Notes:

[2:31] - Hear how Joan began using early computer software with stroke patients and saw technology speed up recovery.
[5:11] - Joan stresses the importance of beginning with free, built-in assistive tools such speech-to-text, read-aloud, and captions.
[7:45] - Hear how Joan helps people choose the right reading and speech tools and offers free tech consultations.
[11:17] - Joan believes that AI can aid in learning when used thoughtfully, but worries about shortcuts and privacy concerns.
[13:32] - While Joan values AI as a creative learning tool, she also stresses the importance of actual understanding and critical thinking.
[15:02] - AI can be a great way to personalize learning.
[17:04] - Hear how Joan uses AI to personalize lessons around students' interests while still thinking critically herself.
[18:55] - Joan explains how she offers collaborative one-on-one tech sessions, which identify struggles.
[20:47] - Joan runs the very affordable Tech Life Inner Circle, providing weekly tutorials, recordings, and live tech brainstorming.
[23:53] - Tech Possibility Academy teaches essential, easy-to-implement tools for parents, educators, and lifelong learners.
[26:42] - Joan stresses technology's necessity for independence while also acknowledging its downsides.
[29:39] - Where can Joan be reached?
Links and Related Resources:
Episode 142: How to Help Neurodivergent Kids Manage Social Media

Episode 177: How Understanding the Adolescent Brain Helps Us Better Support Teens

Episode 241: How to Be a 'Screen-Smart Parent with Jodi Gold, MD

Connect with Joan Green, M.A., CCC-SLP:
Innovative Speech Therapy Main Website

Tech Life Inner Circle

IST Tech Savvy Solutions Facebook Group

Joining us for this episode of Diverse Thinking Different Learning is Dr. Viannae Nelkin.  Dr. Viannae Nelkin is a board-eligible pediatric neuropsychologist and founder of The Children's Neuropsychology Center. She earned her master's and doctorate in clinical psychology, training at top institutions including Children's Hospital Los Angeles, Cedars-Sinai, Johns Hopkins All Children's Hospital, and Children's Hospital of Orange County. Her work focuses on early intervention, neurodiversity-affirming care, and empowering families to help their children thrive. Deeply committed to supporting children with neurological and genetic conditions, she will soon return to Cedars-Sinai Medical Center to continue her specialized work.

​​This conversation explores understanding the brain's remarkable ability to grow and adapt (its neuroplasticity) and how it can help shape how parents, educators, and clinicians support children with learning differences. Rather than viewing assessments as an endpoint, we discuss how each evaluation is a starting point or a roadmap revealing a child's unique learning profile and potential for growth.
Dr. Nelkin describes neuroplasticity as the brain's superpower, an ongoing ability to form and strengthen neural pathways throughout life. She explains that learning differences are not signs of inability but are rather reflections of how differently each brain processes information. Through this lens, interventions aren't "fixes" for broken systems but are instead workouts for the brain - strategic ways to build new connections and reinforce weaker ones.
Throughout our conversation, we highlight why early intervention is so important. The first few years of life are a critical window for development when neural connections form rapidly and learning experiences leave lasting imprints. However, families are too often told to "wait and see," delaying support until challenges have really taken a toll on a child's confidence, motivation, and emotional well-being. Dr. Nelkin highlights that early intervention can change that trajectory and can help kiddos not only catch up academically but also develop resilience and self-assurance.
Our discussion challenges the stigma surrounding assessment and diagnosis. We stress that an evaluation doesn't define a child's limits but rather brings their strengths and needs to light so that educators and parents can customize support. We also discuss the incredible importance of collaboration between neuropsychologists, teachers, and caregivers. As Dr. Nelkin reminds us, the most powerful word in a child's journey is "yet" - they haven't mastered it yet, but with the right support, their potential is truly limitless!
Show Notes:
[2:33] - Dr. Viannae Nelkin highlights the importance of neuroplasticity to focus on children's potential rather than labels.
[4:00] - Dr. Nelkin offers a comprehensive definition of neuroplasticity.
[6:13] - We learn why Dr. Nelkin regards interventions as extra workouts for the brain.
[9:20] - How can neuroplasticity be nurtured?
[11:12] - Dr. Nelkin regards neuroplasticity as the brain's superpower.
[14:14] - Dr. Nelkin argues for reframing stigma around assessments and collaborating between neuropsychologists, teachers, and parents.
[17:42] - Early academic intervention helps diverse learners catch up and prevents later mental health struggles.
[20:20] - Building strong early learning foundations can help prevent future academic difficulties.
[21:57] - Dr. Nelkin explains how early educators can identify learning differences and apply strengths-based interventions to help kids.
[24:12] - Dr. Nelkin loves helping very young children.
[26:53] - Hear how specialists support children's learning at different stages using evidence-based strategies.
[29:33] - Dr. Nelkin reiterates the importance of early intervention.
[33:51] - Dr. Nelkin explains how learning and emotional challenges affect development.
[36:48] - Assessments help reveal why a child struggles and provide parents with hope and understanding.
[37:30] - Dr. Nelkin highlights and explains the importance of the power of "yet."
Links and Related Resources:
Episode 185: Late Diagnosis: Why Did I Get Missed? with Dr. Monica Blied

Episode 203: ADHD and the Gut-Brain Connection: Exploring Integrative Treatments with Sara Langley, MSN, PMHNP-BC

Episode 214: Private Neuropsychological Evaluation vs. School Evaluation

Episode 215: How to Support Students Who Struggle with Reading Comprehension - with Dr. Emily Levy

Episode 233: Body-Based Interventions for Neurodivergent Students with Megan Beardmore, PhD, NCSP

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