#NoThirds: Bullying In Ballet - What Parents Need To Know (Part 2)
Before you listen, please consider taking our quick podcast survey so we can continue improving the show. Link: https://forms.gle/Uf3Xx3XyEUzBtQw69 In Part 2 of our #NoThirds series on bullying in ballet, we dig deeper into accountability, emotional health, and what it actually looks like to navigate harmful dynamics inside dance environments. Our guests explore how parents, students, and schools can recognize the signs of toxic training, respond to concerning behavior, and create space for honest conversations about what dancers are experiencing. As we address listener questions, we discuss the importance of listening closely to children, understanding the emotions behind their reactions, and knowing when a parent needs to step in. We also look at how communication with school leadership can resolve issues, why empowering dancers to speak up matters, and how consistent check-ins at home help identify problems early. The episode touches on the influence of social media and the value of reviews in pushing programs to improve. Part 2 continues the conversation parents and dancers need right now. Learn more about Kelsey Fyffe: https://www.livemindfullypsychotherapy.com/dancers-athletes Interested in working with Fran at Veyette Virtual Ballet School? Check out our Back to Dance Guide for an exclusive discount: https://ballethelpdesk.com/backtoschool/ Links: Shop Our Back to Dance Guide: https://ballethelpdesk.com/backtoschool/ Buy Corrections Journals: https://ballethelpdesk.com/corrections-journals/ Support Ballet Help Desk: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=JBTG3G2W77EJ8 Instagram: @BalletHelpDesk Facebook: BalletHelpDesk Key Takeaways • Accountability is essential for healthy dance environments • Understanding a child's behavior helps address bullying • Open conversations about feelings support emotional awareness • Toxic training situations can affect long-term mental health • Parents need to recognize when intervention is needed • Communication with school administration is part of the solution • Parents should stay proactive in protecting their child's well-being • Encouraging dancers to use their voices can reduce bullying • Regular check-ins at home help identify problems early • Reviews and feedback can drive meaningful change in schools Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/ian-aisling/new-future License code: MGAW5PAHYEYDQZCI
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#NoThirds: Bullying In Ballet - What Parents Need To Know (Part 1)
Before you listen, we'd love your help. Please take a minute to fill out our short podcast survey so we can keep making this show better for you. Link: https://forms.gle/Uf3Xx3XyEUzBtQw69 In Part 1 of our #NoThirds series on bullying in ballet, we sit down with two experts to unpack what bullying looks like in today's dance world. Dr. Suzette Takei, a longtime middle school principal with a PhD, and Kelsey Fyffe, a licensed therapist who works with high-performing dancers and athletes, offer clear, grounded insight into how bullying is defined, how it develops, and how it affects young people. Fran Veyette adds his perspective from inside the ballet studio and helps frame how these issues can show up in day-to-day training. Together, the conversation explores the difference between bullying and abuse, the influence of social media, the roles parents and teachers play in responding to problems, and the importance of emotional awareness in preventing unhealthy environments. This episode sets the stage for understanding how bullying takes root in ballet settings and how families, teachers, and students can work toward building a more supportive studio culture. In part 2, we begin to address the listener questions we received. Learn more about Kelsey Fyffe: https://www.livemindfullypsychotherapy.com/dancers-athletes Interested in working with Fran at Veyette Virtual Ballet School? Check out our Back to Dance Guide for an exclusive discount: https://ballethelpdesk.com/backtoschool/ Links: Shop Our Back to Dance Guide: https://ballethelpdesk.com/backtoschool/ Buy Corrections Journals: https://ballethelpdesk.com/corrections-journals/ Support Ballet Help Desk: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=JBTG3G2W77EJ8 Instagram: @BalletHelpDesk Facebook: BalletHelpDesk Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/ian-aisling/new-future License code: MGAW5PAHYEYDQZCI
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Part 2: The Nutcracker That Almost Wasn't
In Part 2 of our conversation with Troy Schumacher, Sara Mearns and Annie Sundberg, we pick up as opening night of The Nutcracker at Wethersfield draws near. From a massive snowstorm that nearly shut everything down to the emotions that swept over the dancers once the curtain finally rose, Troy shares what it took to bring this extraordinary production to life in the middle of a pandemic. The Nutcracker at Wethersfield documentary has its world premiere at DocNYC on November 16th and 20th, followed by a theatrical release at select cinemas, including a special screening and Q&A on December 13th at the New Plaza Cinema in New York. Find out if the film is screening near you at nutcrackerfilm.com. Dance companies and schools can also request to host their own screening via the site. The film will be available to stream on the GATHR app for a special holiday window from December 21 through January 5. Links: Shop Our Back to Dance Guide Buy Corrections Journals Support Ballet Help Desk Instagram: @BalletHelpDesk Facebook: BalletHelpDesk TikTok: Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/ian-aisling/new-future License code: MGAW5PAHYEYDQZCI
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How Troy Schumacher Saved Nutcracker
What would you do if, for the first time in forever, Nutcracker got canceled? This is what hundreds of thousands of ballet fans and thousands of dancers were faced with in the Winter of 2020. Covid had shut down the world and it was particularly bad in New York City. Enter Troy Schumacher, a soloist with the New York City Ballet and the founder of the Ballet Collective. Troy found a way to stage a Nutcracker, attract an audience and keep a bunch of dancers employed. Tune in to our two-part episode to hear all about how Troy pulled this off, why Sara Mearns got involved and how Emmy nominated filmmaker, Annie Sundberg captured all of it in a documentary that airs in November 2025. The Nutcracker at Wethersfield is having its world premiere at DocNYC on November 16th and November 20th, followed by a theatrical release at select cinemas with a special screening and Q&A on December 13th at the New Plaza Cinema in New York. To find out if the film is screening near you this holiday season, please visit nutcrackerfilm.com If you're a dance company or a school and you wish to hold a screening you can reach out via the film website. The film will be available to stream on the GATHR app for a special holiday window 12/21 – 1/5. Links: Shop Our Back to Dance Guide Buy Corrections Journals Support Ballet Help Desk Instagram: @BalletHelpDesk Facebook: BalletHelpDesk TikTok: Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/ian-aisling/new-future License code: MGAW5PAHYEYDQZCI
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#NoThirds with Fran Veyette - The Myth of the Perfect Ballet Path (Part 2)
There's no such thing as a perfect path in ballet, and few people know that better than Francis Veyette, Co-Founder of the Veyette Virtual Ballet School. In part 2 of this episode of #NoThirds, Fran continues to discuss the ups and downs of a dance career, how setbacks can create unexpected growth, and why parental support and trust are critical along the way. He also explains how dancers can better navigate feedback, understand company dynamics, and use peer networks to stay informed. It's a candid look at the messy, unpredictable reality of building a career in ballet, and how to make the most of it. Interested in working with Fran at Veyette Virtual Ballet School? Check out our Back to Dance Guide for an exclusive discount. Links: Shop Our Back to Dance Guide Buy Corrections Journals Support Ballet Help Desk Instagram: @BalletHelpDesk Facebook: BalletHelpDesk Music from #Uppbeat: https://uppbeat.io/t/ian-aisling/new-future License code: MGAW5PAHYEYDQZCI
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